Lou Holtz said, “Everybody needs four things in life: Something to do, someone to love, someone to believe in and something to hope for.” (I add we need to be valued when present and missed when we are gone.)
He also simplifies things down to three simple rules paraphrased in some cases:
- Do the right thing – if you make a mistake say you are sorry and move on. No one is perfect but always try to do the right thing to begin with.
- Do everything to the very best of your ability within the time allotted. Not everyone will be an All-American, not everyone can finish first, and not everyone can be great at everything. But give it your all in the time allotted and move forward.
- Show people you care – really care. Ask how you can help them and mean it. If you are a consistent reader of my blog you know I write about this a lot!
He also says people have three basic questions:
- Can I trust you? Without trust you have no relationship. Period
- Are you committed to excellence? Best way to prove that is to do everything to the very best of your ability all of the time.
- Do you care about me? Caring about others is not about making their lives easy or being their friend. It is about enabling them to be successful. a FOCUS ON CUSTOMER SUCCESS.
Think about someone you have a problem with and ask these three questions – is there trust, a commitment to excellence, and do you care? If any of the three are missing you have a decision to make. You can change it, live with it as it is or move on.
Much of this came from a recent column written by Harvey Mackay. It struck a chord so here it is with my twist. I think Lou Holtz and Harvey Mackay are both remark-able.









